Getting the Caregiver Chemistry Right Have you ever met someone who just rubbed you the wrong way? Or met someone you instantly liked? That's chemistry—relationship chemistry. Now, imaging not having the choice to decide which of those persons will come into your home and help you bathe, prepare your meals, or carry you to your doctors' appointments. That's why caregiver matching, getting the right caregiver with a client, is so important. Being … [Read more...]
Dignity in Care: 5 Ways to Keep Dignity in Caregiving
Using Kinder, Gentler Words When there is something that we consider delicate, especially in the South, we like to find ways to talk about the issue without coming right out and saying what we are talking about. Instead of saying someone was a liar, we might say that she was economical with the truth—and then finish it with a hearty "bless her heart." When we talk about caring for those who are not able to care for themselves, we also use … [Read more...]
Caregiver Fatigue: Crying While Caring
Alice was busy raising a family when things started going downhill for her parents. She had never really thought about having to take care of anyone other than her own children. But her father passed away from a heart attack, which left her mother alone. Alice tried to check in on her mother as often as she could, but once her mother was diagnosed with dementia, Alice decided to move her mom into her home. For Alice, it was both an honor and a … [Read more...]